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Spring, summer, and fall fill us with hope;
\nwinter alone reminds us of the human condition. <\/p>\n

—Mignon McLaughlin
\n_____________________<\/p>\n

I remember after we moved to Bloomfield, way back when I was a young teenager, a lot of years ago. We moved in October. I can\u2019t say it was that next spring for sure, but it probably was. Dad was always nosing around, always looking for any little opportunity to make a few bucks. And somehow, he found a hybrid seed corn company up in northern Iowa, a small regional enterprise. He signed up as a dealer. I can\u2019t remember that he ever did such a thing before, being a seed corn dealer. He never did much with it, maybe moved a few dozen bags of seed each season. Plus, what he planted himself. He got a discount, of course, as you would. The thing that remains firm in my mind about that little seed corn company was its name, from a town of the same name. Winterset. <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve wondered, over the years. What kind of bleak and barren snow-swept landscape could ever be so terrible that its inhabitants would call it Winterset? Think of it like sunset. A place where winter sets in and stays a while. What kind of people would even live in such a desolate land? Did the sun ever shine there? Was there summer in the land of Winterset? The town\u2019s most famous son was the actor, John Wayne. He was born there. He didn\u2019t stick around long, though. Which I figure is totally understandable. <\/p>\n

The whole Winterset thing came to me in the last few weeks as I was brooding and getting a little mopey about that very thing. It\u2019s winter. We\u2019re smack dab in the middle of that long and dreary stretch of time that comes around every year. Winter. It always comes slinking in. And once it starts, it\u2019s pretty much endless. January seemed about three months long. Then the first week of February then came limping through the door. And here we are, and that\u2019s how it is. <\/p>\n

Except for the incessant dreariness of it, I can\u2019t complain much about the winter, so far. I always want to see at least one major snow storm, a storm where things shut down and you slowly creep home from work early along the icy roads. It\u2019s always exciting and fun that way. Once. But this year, so far, at least here in Lancaster County, it\u2019s been zilch. Nada. The ground barely got covered, a few times. It\u2019s rained a lot. And it kind of grinds down on the heaviness of it all, the fact that we can\u2019t even get a respectable snow storm. Almost, one could get cranky.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t remember that I got this down for a few years. In January, I mean. This year, there\u2019s one factor I can think of that would cause that tautness inside, like it is. The book. I\u2019m done. And there\u2019s not much to do now but wait. Back to that a little later. I got a few bunny trails to go down, first. <\/p>\n

Last week, the powers that be marked the event, like they do every year. This time, I took a little more notice for some reason. The Challenger disaster. It happened thirty-four years ago, in 1986. You always see the headlines. This year, I saw them, and a lot of memories came washing back.<\/p>\n

I remember quite clearly when it happened. It was a bitingly clear Tuesday winter morning. On Tuesdays, in winter, I went to town. Drove the Stud up to West Grove and tied him in Henry Egbert\u2019s old ramshackle barn. Caught a ride to town with the coffee loafers, or stood beside the road and caught a ride with my thumb. There, I hung out at the Bloomfield Sale Barn with my buddies. Bought a lamb or a calf now and then. And that morning, I was sitting there in Chuck\u2019s Caf\u00e9 with the regulars, swapping small talk and tall tales. Sipping strong black coffee. And all of a sudden, Chuck came bustling through the front door of the little caf\u00e9. He had been working in his shop, where he had a radio turned on. He was excited, you could tell. <\/p>\n

\u201cTurn on the TV, turn on the TV,\u201d his voice was quietly urgent. \u201cThe space shuttle just blew up.\u201d I can\u2019t remember that I had even thought of the space shuttle that particular morning. We had read all about it in the paper, about the school teacher who was going on this trip. I have remembered her name through all the years since. Christa McAuliffe. It was a big symbolic deal, her inclusion with the crew. The news of it even reached the Amish world I was in. She was going to come back and tell her classes all about it, and probably talk on TV. America was excited about it. <\/p>\n

\u201cTurn on the TV,\u201d Chuck repeated. Mrs. C stepped back into her little kitchen, where she had a small black and white television stuck up in the corner. She turned it on, and we all crowded around, watching, mesmerized. I remember the great clouds of smoke and debris that littered the skies, where the Challenger had blown up. I forget which TV channel it was. The announcers spoke in hushed, shocked tones. We stood around, absorbing, silent. <\/p>\n

And suddenly, the screen switched to the White House. And there stood president Reagan, all somber in his suit. His speechwriters had cobbled together a brief statement. I don\u2019t remember much of what he said, except when he wound down. The astronauts, he proclaimed, had reached out and touched the face of God. Chillingly beautiful rhetoric, that was. And that\u2019s all it was, rhetoric to cover the brutal and horrifying fact that the bodies of the crew had been blown to a thousand smithereens. You might as well say they touched the face of God, because in another dimension, perhaps they had. <\/p>\n

And I thought about it this year, more than usual, looking back. The year was 1986, when it happened. Right that moment, my life and my mind were in tremendous turmoil. That spring, I would make one of my final, frantic flights from Bloomfield, Iowa. Fleeing the world I had figured to settle in. It had not worked. There was no way it ever could have. From today, I can see that and say that. It all just was what it was. It can never be told any other way. <\/p>\n

Twenty years ago, Ellen and I got married. And we moved into this old brick house I still live in. I\u2019ve lived here ever since. Sometime in that first year, we got a new roof installed. Shingles. Twenty-year shingles. And this year, it\u2019s getting right at twenty years. The shingles are getting a little worn and thin. <\/p>\n

I mentioned something to Levi, my Amish contractor friend at work. We go way back, Levi and me. I\u2019ve mentioned him a few times before, and he\u2019s in the book on page 203. I had told him about it, but I never thought to show him until one day a few weeks ago. He stopped in for a quote. We were just chilling, there at my desk after we got the quote done. Chatting a bit before he rushed out the door. And I thought of it for the first time. Hey, do you want to read about yourself in my book? I showed him the galley copy, opened to the right page. Levi took the book and stood there reading. A smile crept onto his face. Great, I thought. At least he\u2019s smiling about it. He seemed mildly pleased. I guess it\u2019s not every day you get to read about yourself in a book. <\/p>\n

Anyway, I mentioned it to him, about my roof, back last fall already. Next year (which is now) I need a new metal roof on my house. I need you to get me a labor quote. I\u2019ll get the metal, myself. I can get a discount. I need the labor. Levi promised he would come around to measure up the house sometime before spring came. <\/p>\n

Well. Last Saturday, I was hanging out with some of my Amish friends, drinking strong black coffee. My phone rang abruptly. I glanced at the screen. Levi. I walked outside to answer. It\u2019s rude, to talk on your phone when you\u2019re with people. Hello, I said. Ira here. And Levi\u2019s voice crackled. \u201cWhat are you doing this morning?\u201d he asked, somewhat vaguely. Oh, just hanging with friends, I said. What are you up to? Are you coming around to measure my house? He was. And he did. He and his driver showed up about an hour later, after I had run my errands. They stacked a ladder against my porch, then another ladder from the porch roof to the house roof. The driver got up and shouted out numbers as Levi took notes on a large yellow pad.<\/p>\n

I chatted with my friend. He\u2019s figuring to get to my house in March sometime. Providing the weather is good, of course. I will buy all the materials at Graber, where I work. Levi will not remove the one layer of 20-year-old shingles. He\u2019ll leave them right where they are. Install lathe over the shingles, spaced at 2 feet on center. Then attach the metal roofing to that. My house roof isn\u2019t that big, but it has lots of hips and a valley or two. And a couple of dormers, too, sticking out. It\u2019s pretty broken up. I told Levi. I\u2019m thinking Shiny Black metal will go well with the red bricks. He agreed wholeheartedly. \u201cYes. That will go well, the color of it. It\u2019s going to look good.\u201d And that\u2019s how we left it. And now I wait. Until March. <\/p>\n

OK. Back now to the book. I remember nine years ago, about this time. The Tyndale people had told me. After the book\u2019s done, and you\u2019re waiting for it to get published, that\u2019s called the waiting game. Or the death march. It\u2019s when most authors go a little bit wacky. At that time, I half shrugged it off. Hey. I was at a place few people ever see. I\u2019d be OK.<\/p>\n

Well, I wasn\u2019t, exactly. From the final edits to publication is usually a matter of some months. Five or six. I came very close to cracking up, waiting for the book\u2019s release. The mind wanders, after you produce intensely for a year or so, then just stop cold. After you get through a long old slog, and suddenly you are turned out to pasture. Hurry up and wait, that\u2019s how it felt, back then. The days edged by slowly, oh, so slowly. I fretted and drank. And drank some more. Thank God for the whiskey, I thought to myself. <\/p>\n

This time, there is no whiskey. And I\u2019m pretty much in the middle of that la-la land of meaninglessness and nothingness. Just kind of shifting along. May. That\u2019s still out there a good ways. Part of me is stretched into intense tautness. And part of me is as relaxed as, well, as I could hope to be in a place like this. It\u2019s a bit strange, I will say. <\/p>\n

Virginia made sure I got my share of galley hard copies of the book. It was great, to hold in my hands for the first time. And I sent some here and there, mostly to my mover-and-shaker friends. The ones who will make some noise. I try to tell my friends who get a copy. This is not the first book. That was then. This is now. This book is its own story. Growing Up Amish<\/em> was the lost and searching youth, on a hard and turbulent road. That voice was young, inexperienced, impulsive, brash. This book, this is me, talking today. From where I am today. It\u2019s a different voice. More mature. Lots of it is a hard and turbulent road, too, but not as a youth. Broken Roads<\/em> picks up where the last book left off. And it brings the journey along, all the way to the death and burial of my father. <\/p>\n

Anyway, I mailed out a few dozen galley copies. A copy that\u2019s close to done, but still needs some editing. There are mistakes, here and there, that you\u2019ll find. One friend who got a book was my old editor from Tyndale. Susan Taylor, the lady who did the actual editing of my first book. She\u2019s the only one from my old crew that I\u2019m still in contact with today. I reached out to her. Hey, do you want a copy? She did. It was purely out of respect, that I sent her one. And some old memories of another time. <\/p>\n

I guess Hachette is sending out galley copies to reviewers, too. That\u2019s what Tyndale did back then, I remember. And strangely enough, a few early reviews have sprouted on Amazon. Mostly good. One review struck me, though, just the wording and detail of it. <\/p>\n

\u201cIra Wagler writes in an unusual way. I wonder if it’s a reflection of his Amish childhood. It’s very understated when it comes to emotion, and sometimes the small details overwhelmed the larger themes. For example, he’ll tell about what chain hotel he stayed at or where he got his coffee, and this is stated and takes up almost as much writing as the events that are the theme of the book—how the old age and eventual death of his parents affected him, as a man who had left their lifestyle behind.<\/p>\n

In this style, Wagler tells of his struggles with issues many of us face—the collapse of a marriage, fighting addiction, finding a community to support your faith, forgiving others. While reading, I wished often he would be more direct and clear with his narrative, but when looking back at my reading, I realized he writes much like we experience life, in a flurry of details with the big issues being there among the everyday.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Umm. Yeah. I thought that\u2019s what writing is. A flurry of details. Just tell the story. Don\u2019t worry about a message. Some will get one thing, some another thing, and some will glean nothing at all. I wasn\u2019t in the least offended by this reviewer. She gave the book four stars. I\u2019ll take it.<\/p>\n

And finally. The other day, a small-time builder walked in at work to pick up some trim. He\u2019s probably about my age, I\u2019ve known him for years. As I was writing up his invoice, he asked, all chatty. \u201cGot any more books coming?\u201d You don\u2019t usually have to ask me that question twice. I beamed. Yep, as a matter of fact, I do, I said. It\u2019s coming out in May. I walked back to my desk and picked up a galley copy of Broken Roads<\/em> and showed it to him. He looked interested. \u201cI bought your first book,\u201d he said. \u201cI gave it to a friend and never saw it again.\u201d I nodded, but didn\u2019t ask if he\u2019d read it. Just in case he hadn\u2019t. <\/p>\n

I told him a little bit about the new book. It\u2019s about my parents and their passing. My marriage blowing up. And so forth. He looked at me shyly. And he stammered a little, telling me. He and his wife had some major issues lately, after 30 years of marriage and raising a family. He wasn\u2019t real comfortable talking about it, I could see. I told him. My marriage didn\u2019t make it anywhere close to that long. Seven years. We couldn\u2019t make it past the seven-year itch. If you guys hung in there for 30 years, I\u2019d say it\u2019s worth fighting for.<\/p>\n

He told me a little bit about it. They are getting counseling and going to church. I applauded. Great. That\u2019s great. Fight, fight, fight for it. And then I said something I don\u2019t say often, because it usually just sounds trite, and people often spout the words without meaning them. I\u2019m going to pray for you, I said. Both of you. I meant it. His stubbled face broke into a smile. \u201cI appreciate that,\u201d he said quietly. \u201cThank you. I appreciate that.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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